DIFFERENCE BETWEEN
FALLING IN LOVE WITH LOVE

JATUH CINTA

Jatuh cinta bukanlah hal yang sulit. Jatuh cinta merupakan hal yang sangat alami dan pengalaman yang begitu spontan, ngga perlu berbuat apapun..mgkn itu sebabnya mengapa dikatakan “jatuh” cinta!

Orang yang sedang kasmaran kadang mengatakan “aku mabuk cinta” Bayangkan eksprisi tersebut! Seakan-akan anda sedang berdiri tanpa melakukan apapun lalu tiba-tiba
sesuatu datang dan terjadi begitu saja pada anda. Jadi kesimpulannya Jatuh cinta itu mudah, sesuatu yang pasif dan spontan.

CINTA

sedangkan Cinta bukanlah hal yang PASIF ataupun pengalaman yang spontan
Cinta NGGA AKAN PERNAH begitu saja terjadi! Kita ngga akan bisa MENEMUKAN cinta yang selamanya, Kita harus MENGUSAHAKANNYA dari hari ke hari.
Benar juga ungkapan “diperbudak cinta” karena cinta itu BUTUH waktu, usaha, dan energi.
Dan yang paling penting, cinta itu butuh sikap BIJAK
Kita harus tahu benar APA YANG HARUS DILAKUKAN agar suatu hubungan
berjalan dengan baik .
Jangan membuat kesalahan untuk hal yang satu ini.
Cinta bukanlah MISTERI

Ada beberapa hal spesifik yang bisa dilakukan (dengan ataupun tanpa pasangan kita) agar hubungan berjalan lancar.. sama halnya dengan hukum alam pada ilmu fisika (seperti gaya Grafitasi), dalam suatu ikatan hubungan juga ada hukumnya.
Sama halnya dengan diet yang tepat dan olahraga yang benar dapat membuat tubuh kita lebih kuat, beberapa kebiasaan dalam suatu hubungan juga DAPAT membuat hubungan itu sendiri menjadi lebih kuat.
Ini merupakan reaksi sebab akibat.

Jika kita tahu dan mau menerapkan hukum-hukum tersebut, tentulah kita bisa “MEMBUAT” cinta bukan “JATUH”. Karena sesungguhnya cinta dalam menjalin suatu hubungan merupakan
sebuah DECISION,dan bukan cuma PERASAAN..!

jika ia sebuah cinta…..
ia tidak mendengar…
namun senantiasa bergetar….

jika ia sebuah cinta…..
ia tidak buta..
namun senantiasa melihat dan merasa..

jika ia sebuah cinta…..
ia tidak menyiksa..
namun senantiasa menguji..

jika ia sebuah cinta…..
ia tidak memaksa..
namun senantiasa berusaha..

jika ia sebuah cinta…..
ia tidak cantik..
namun senantiasa menarik..

jika ia sebuah cinta…..
ia tidak datang dengan kata-kata..
namun senantiasa menghampiri dengan
hati..

jika ia sebuah cinta…..
ia tidak terucap dengan kata..
namun senantiasa hadir dengan sinar
mata dan bahasa tubuh..

jika ia sebuah cinta…..
ia tidak hanya berjanji..
namun senantiasa mencoba
memenangi..

jika ia sebuah cinta…..
ia mungkin tidak suci..
namun senantiasa tulus..

jika ia sebuah cinta…..
ia tidak hadir karena permintaan..
namun hadir karena ketentuan…

jika ia sebuah cinta, ia tidak hadir dengan kekayaan dan
kebendaan…
namun hadir karena pengorbanan dan
kesetiaan..

Cintailah pasangan kita, seperti kita ingin dicintai olehnya
Setialah pada pasangan anda, seperti anda ingin mendapatkan kesetiannya

My Life ^^

Soul雞 + Mate龍- 200209 ~ Accepting it | Hoping it | Struggling it

I dunno how to write it
I dunno how to picture it
I only want to write some lyrics of few songs that quite filled (inspired) some moments before I have a new life.
Maybe the way I write it will be quite mess..but later I’ll fix it..maybe I’m too excited with what I have achieved..I mean..I’m really excited to through this year, n hopefully by permission from GOD, not only this year..but year by year in the future..with him along by myside, hand to hand..
holding each other..across the time =]

Selamanya cinta > D'cinammons
My Valentine > Jim Brickman
First Love > Utada Hikaru
Oh Baby > Cinta Laura
Sarang He Yo > JJ Lin

Being honest..being opened..maybe for some people it’s quite horrorfying..but sometime when the time command you to say it..it wouldn’t be that scary.

I already had been up and down many times..which is..it seem..by the power of TIME, my will being put into trials and trials..so I had to struggle it..and had to hoping it..also had to accepting it.

Quite wierd when you read this..but for me it’s too REAL to be denied.
I can say..I never felt that feeling..that strong bound..that almost same characters & other parts/things of us which I can’t describe it in here (sorry)..that is very hard to be believed..that I think..he's THE ONE ^^

Okay..judge me that I’m too early to say it or announce it..or maybe, just say that because I’m depply in love rightnow then I think in that way..

People can say everything that they want to say..but they don’t know what I’d been through..how was my feeling when I fell down many times, that almost made me to gave up of it..but I dunno how, everytime I want to gave up, He just like give hope inside of me, and made me believe that there’s a chance..and the chance showed up. I dunno how you call it..you can call it coincidence, so do I..but this is the coincidence that it never happened in my whole life after I remembered all things that ever happened in my life...nothing that closed enough like this one.

Better I don’t talk too much about this..but what happened from the nov 2008 till feb 2009..it seem like chain of somethings in my life..that lead me onto something & someone..someone that maybe can change my life..and something that give me hope & believe that I can be somebody better in this life.

Well..maybe I’m too naive by writing this.

But nothing to be ashamed of, coz like I said before..my feeling to him now it's REAL.
Eventough while I was walking on it, maybe many of persons thought me as a dreamer or maybe silly person..how can i "..............." with someone who's younger than me.

hahahaha..OMG...it's very2 funny n crazy!
But you know what..those characters..a dreamer..a sillywoman, that helped me to reach what I wanted..beside praying to the Lord.

Some quotes also help me to get through it..
“IF YOU WANT TO IMPROVE, BE CONTENT TO BE THOUGHT FOOLISH AND STUPID”

We all know that sometime we are being stupid and silly many times in our life
But do you ever realize, that your sillyness and you stupidity sometime bring colours into your life..something that could be a surprise..unexpected good surprise.

Last but not least..

“IS IT DIFFICULT TO BE A WINNER. BUT IT IS HARDER TO MAINTAIN IT”

This is not THE END of the struggle, but it is THE BEGINNING of it.

My new life just begin right now but it feels like I know him for a long long long time ago.

May GOD bless us from now on till the end.

AMEN.

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Thanks to GOD that always helps me in some of my hard times n finallyI found someone.

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Thanks to my Lovely mom, eventough she didn’t know what was already being happened 2me but thx for her time & her ear to listen my heart-expression.
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Thanks to friendster n ym that made me met him..I owe very BIG for this. THANKS!

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And also thanks to him too..for everythings =]
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My Valentine's day 09

HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY

Valentine day.. When this event was coming by..so many questions asked to me..what would I do in Valentine day? I only said that I would took walk in the mall or could be just watched DVD in my home. Hmmm..I never realize that 1 day besides the others 355 days, will make some of people busy (especially couples) that what will they do when the day comes? Weird, huh? it was true..there was different atmosphere...Like love was everywhere..love was in the air that moment.Valentine day really could made somebody busy..just like these examples I took from some of my friends.
First, a friend of mine asked to me wether she should gift chocholate or not to the man she like..& until February 14th in the morning she still didn’t sleep yet because she just finished her design card for her man. (Fiuhhh..)
Second, other friend of mine, celebrated this Valentine as the last day they were in relationship. (Totally didn’t make sense at all..) For myself, Valentine day was stupid because there’s no something special to be celebrated becaused in my opinion Valentine day not only February 14th..I can say that Valentine day can be brought in anyday of our life, isn’t? Maybe some of you agree with me & some are disagree.Valentine just an ordinary day..maybe in Valentine day we can have some reasons to give someone we like chocolates, flowers, or gifts than any other day because it’s Valentine..

but actually after I passed Valentine this year i have changed my point of view about valentine day., It's because I celebrate it with him^^ altough we juzt dinner, watching movie, walking together..holding hands =p It's make me very" happy n appreciate Valentine event this year. thx 2 GOD that made me meet him and also want to say many" thanks to my litbro’s..for the flowers, persian cat doll, menta heart candy, happpydent lemon mint, toblerone, my body green tea =p hahaha.. Although your gift is simple but so meaningfull ^^ Thinking of U make me smile =) Thinking of U n me 2gether makes me blush...=p

"I hope the next Valentine day I will already have someone special beside me. .hopefully, hehehe =D
Happy Valentine day all!"

Regards,
-Lilian-

This pic of bread below is dedicated to my lophly little bro or Siny0o in malank city^^

"Heyyy bro..Actually all this bread is 4U but b'coz u r currently in malank so that i cant sent this bread t0 U since it'z troublesome, moreover the bread will taste nasty n bad...
But don't b dissapointed, next time I will make more special one, so please b patient...
For now u have to b satisfied juzt to see the picture only" =p

Hmmmmm...Deliciousssss...!!!
jgn ngilerrr yaaaaa...hahahahahhaha...

MY 1st BREAD ^^

SAUSAGE N FISH BREAD
Filling :

• sausage

Toping :

• Mozarella
• Mayonaise
• Saos Tomat
• Daun Bawang
  

SMOKE BEEF BREAD
Filling :

• Smoked Beef
• Abon

Topping :

• Mozarella
• Mayonaise
• Daun Bawang
  
• Tomato Sauce
  

TRIPLE BALL BREAD
Filling : kosongan, g pke^^
Toping :

• Abon
  
• Daun Bawang
  
• Smoked Beef potong segitiga
• Chesse potong segitiga
  

SWEET MAYONAISE BREAD
Filling : g pke jg, kosongan ^^
Toping :

• Sweet Mayonaise
• Abon

CHESSE ALMOND BUN
Filling : Cream Chesse
Toping :

• Sauce Almond Crispy

TUNA SWEET BUN
Filling :

• Tuna

Topping:

• Mayonaise
• Daun Bawang
  

PAPRIKA BREAD
Filling :

• Smoked Beef
• Chesse
  

Toping :

• Paprika Hijau, Merah
• Mozarella
• Mayonaise
• Tomato sauce
  

CELERI SWEET BREAD
Filling : Abon
Topping :

• Mexican celeri
• Mozarella

Lyric of a song

PETER CARERA - YOU'RE THE INSPIRATION

You know our love was meant to be
The kind of love that lasts forever
And I need you here with me
From tonight until the end of time

You should know, everywhere I go
You’re always on my mind, in my heart
In my soul

You’re the meaning in my life
You’re the inspiration
You bring feeling to my life
You’re the inspiration
Wanna have you near me
I wanna have you hear me sayin’
No one needs you more than I need you

And I know, yes I know that it’s plain to see
We’re so in love when we’re together
And I know that I need you here with me
From tonight until the end of time

You should know, everywhere I go
Always on my mind, in my heart
In my soul

You’re the meaning in my life
You’re the inspiration
You bring feeling to my life
You’re the inspiration
Wanna have you near me
I wanna have you hear me sayin’
No one needs you more than I need you

You’re the meaning in my life
You’re the inspiration
You bring feeling to my life
You’re the inspiration
Wanna have you near me
I wanna have you hear me sayin’
No one needs you more than I need you

~ This song is dedicated to my future half-heart, eventough I don’t know who is he & where is he in the mean time but I’m sure we will meet each other someday somehow.
May my GOD, Jesus Christ, lead me to right one and only. Amen ~

Lilian,^^

ONCE AGAIN ABOUT L.O.V.E

Hello y’all.... Just drop by for one simple question n need a deep answer
What do you choose…being loved or loving?
Don’t answer both…please write your reason too Just answer it honestly from your point of view I just wanna share with y’all Thank you

Regards, Lilian^^

MOMMY

MOMMY

Mama melahirkan kita sambil menangis kesakitan dan masih
kita menyakitinya

Masih mampukah kita tertawa melihat penderitaannya

Mencaci makinya, melawannya, memukulnya, mengacuhkannya,
meninggalkannya

Mama tidak pernah mengeluh

Membersihkan kotoran yang ada, pada kita waktu masih kecil

Memberikan ASI waktu kita bayi

Mencuci celana kotor kita

Menahan derita menggendong kita seharian

Sadarilah bahwa di dunia ini tak ada 1 orangpun yang mau
mati demi kita

Selain mama…

-I love you, mom-

POSSIBILITY = L.O.V.E

POSSIBILITY = L.O.V.E

Everyday I wish that I can meet my dream man each night

I always imagine what is like my dream

man each night
He has to be clever, handsome, cute, charming and perfect

More less perfect in my eyes actually
Many people doubt with what others people thinking sometime
They say “There are no way you can find that kind of your perfect man

There’s only be one possiblity in a millon chances
How possibly you could get that chance?”
Maybe what they are trying to say is right but whose life they’re talking?

Each day we try to learn what is love From many relationships around us, friends around us
We see love movies, we listen many love songs, we read many love stories
Why they create those if they know that there’s no possibility?

I think we can say that sometime in every heart of some people Are believing that love it’s not that to easy to come We pray, we try each day but we couldn’t do one thing
We can’t forward time as we like

There will be a time that every people will find their love Maybe not now, maybe not tomorrow, maybe not in couple of months But as long as there’s word of possibility in dictionary
We can give our patiences, our passions, our dreams

To have a possibilty to find our love, the love that we truly need Not based on peoples comments but based on ourself A possibility to meet our love, it’s the beauty of loving.

(Inspired by Shanghai Kiss movie)